I’m writing this in my sleep

I told my kids I was going to bed a few hours ago, and I did, I swear. I was up early and it was time for my body to rest. They tried to make me stay awake, but I needed to lay down.

Times like this make me so glad that I [...]

Can we grill them?

Grace loved her little brown turkey

I just found 5 dead baby hens and a turkey on my living room floor.

I woke up this morning and thought I saw the dog laying by a rather large mouse. We get teeny little field mice in the house and she loves to catch them, [...]

Old Fart

So I’m here at my Grandfather’s funeral and my world is a bit rocked. Funerals often make people resolve to change something. “The thing that hurts the most is________.” I have several ways to end that sentence and each of them ends with a personal commitment to not ever feel that way again.

The [...]

Things I’ve learned from my kids

Meagan took this picture

In the unschooling community, there’s a great respect for children’s inner wisdom. This week, for me, has been filled with confirmation that I need to follow my kids’ lead more often and to value their life’s experiences and authentic reactions. Be fearless 

I love going to the park and [...]

Emotionally Manipulating Children

This gets me steamed- and I see a lot of “gentle” parents doing it. It sounds like this;

“Oh sweetie, it makes mommy so sad when you _________” or “Come on, give grandma a kiss, you’re hurting her feelings” or “Please ______ honey, it would make me so happy”

Here’s a newsflash- Your [...]

Still Digesting

You know when the news interviews people outside the scene of some major event and some people say really stupid things, while others are able to give an accurate account of the events in an order that truly gives you a picture of what went on?

I’m in the first group.

I feel [...]